Some people are not worth your pondering about them, especially if they make you feel like time is being wasted, and the whole experience feels like sitting on nails - painful.
Usually, these people tend to be pathetically needy, never happy when alone, feel rarely understood when with someone, and have a very pronounced ego.
Run if you can!
On the other hand, some people are so extraordinary, I feel they are absolutely worth my every thought. They have stimulated my creativity and set me up further on my journey of personal development and towards becoming a better and prouder woman (besides other things).
I'd still like to ask - is spending time with the first group of unmentionables somewhat essential for becoming a more compassionate human being?
I had not seen it first, but soon it downed on me that yes, very much so [unfortunately].
Back to the second group of extraordinary individuals.
How does a freedom&solitude-loving man get along with a freedom&solitude-loving woman ?